Crisis or just stressed? The mental health mistake leaving Aussies struggling in silence
Announcement posted by Invigorate PR 06 Aug 2025
Mental health is no longer a side conversation, it's the front line of personal and professional performance. However when the pressure hits, most people don't know whether they need urgent crisis intervention or long-term therapy. According to leading mental resilience and crisis recovery expert Gary Fahey, that uncertainty is leaving thousands of Australians stuck, spiralling or suffering in silence.
"Not all stress is the same and not all support should be either," Fahey said.
Fahey, a former elite federal police officer and now one of Australia's most sought-after performance and crisis intervention specialists, said more people are reaching breaking point not from catastrophic trauma, but from emotional overload and they often don't realise how close to burnout they really are.
Crisis doesn't always look like crisis
Fahey explained that people tend to associate crisis with breakdowns or blow-ups, but in reality, the signs are more subtle.
"If you're constantly overwhelmed, emotionally reactive, can't sleep, struggling with decisions or feel like you're walking around with a weight on your chest, you may not need long-term therapy. You might need immediate intervention and a fast strategy to restore control," he said.
Silent stress is fuelling a silent meltdown
Fahey points to the rising influence of silent stress, the accumulation of emotional hits as a major driver behind this mental load.
"People are being crippled by cumulative emotional and confidence diminishing hits. Missed calls, unread emails, meetings, social media pressure, family tension, relationship strain, workplace issues, crippling bills. It all builds up and when your brain gets overwhelmed, logic shuts down," he said.
This is where many people spiral: into poor decisions, reactive behaviour, emotional withdrawal or feelings of hopelessness.
Why your brain isn't working the way it should
"When we're under constant stress, the emotional part of the brain takes over. The prefrontal cortex, the centre of logic, problem-solving and reason, literally goes offline," Fahey said.
"You're not broken. Your biology is doing what it thinks it needs to survive but it means you can't solve the problem from inside the problem."
Intervention is about circuit-breaking, not coping
Fahey said crisis intervention doesn't mean therapy. It means rewiring your nervous system in the moment, so you can think clearly again and take effective action. This involves a toolbox of methods and principles that help you to restore a sense of order in your life.
"It is important to understand that crisis intervention provides you with the immediate skills to get through the current catastrophe that you feel you are experiencing. It helps you to put in place urgent tools and tactics to get through and regain control," Fahey said.
"Once you are feeling more calm and supported, you can then look at how to solve the issues that are impacting your life. Crisis intervention involves practical and immediate action to gain control."
When to seek therapy vs when to seek intervention
Fahey said therapy is often the best choice for unpacking long-term patterns, past trauma or developing deeper self-understanding. However when someone needs rapid support to reset, restore control and stop spiralling, a crisis intervention expert may be more appropriate.
"Think of it like first aid. If you've got a deep wound, you need a doctor but if you are bleeding out, you need pressure, fast," he said.
Take a breath, then take action
Fahey's message is clear. Don't wait until you break. If you're not coping, if decisions feel too hard, or if every day feels like an emotional firefight, that's your sign. Stop. Breathe. Seek help.
"Slowing down isn't weakness, it's the smartest move you'll make."
About Gary Fahey
Gary Fahey is a former high-ranking officer with the Australian Federal Police, now one of the country's most in-demand crisis intervention specialists and workplace performance experts. After experiencing his own highly publicised breakdown, he founded a highly respected consultancy to help individuals and organisations navigate stress, high performance and personal resilience.
Today, he works with leaders across a broad range of industries to prevent burnout and restore performance and life balance. His clients include CEOs, athletes, first responders, entrepreneurs and everyday Australians committed to taking back control of their lives.